What is DidHePay?
A gamified way to get spoiled. You post something you want, nails, hair, a birthday dinner, and share a link. People compete on a live leaderboard to fund it. Whoever's #1 when the clock hits zero wears the crown.
Is this a dating or sugar app?
No. There are no DMs, no browsing, and no profiles to discover. Contributing buys a spot on a leaderboard, recognition and a rank, and nothing else. Contact is never for sale at any price. The guardrails are the whole point.
Do I need an account to fund someone from a link?
No. If someone sends you a link, you can contribute as a guest, pick an amount, choose named or anonymous, and pay. You can make an account afterward if you want to track your crowns, but it's never required to spoil someone.
Can I contribute anonymously?
Any time, with zero penalty to your rank. Anonymous dollars climb the board exactly like named ones. You can also set every contribution to anonymous by default.
How does "the crown" work?
Open goodies have a public leaderboard and a deadline. Whoever has contributed the most when the clock hits zero takes the crown, it shows on their profile, permanently. In the final hour, others can "dethrone" the leader by topping them.
Are contributions refundable?
No, every contribution is final at the moment of payment, and that's shown above every pay button. A contribution is a voluntary gift, not a purchase of goods or services.
What does it cost? How do creators get paid?
Posting is free. Creators keep 80% of every contribution; DidHePay's platform fee is 20%. Payouts run through Stripe, you connect a bank account and verify your identity, and funds route to you. There's a free standard payout and an optional instant-to-debit cash-out.
Is there a referral reward?
Yes. Invite a friend with your code, and when their first goodie gets funded you earn 5% of every contribution on it, paid out of our platform fee, so it costs your friend nothing.
Do you sell my data or run ads?
Never. No ads, no data sales, no data brokers. We publish only aggregate, anonymized trends computed across groups of 100+ people, never anything that could identify you. Deleting your account removes you from analytics within 30 days.
Who can use it?
18 and older, everywhere, always. Accounts are age-gated at sign-up and identity-verified before payouts. Any goal involving minors is removed and reported.
What can I post a goodie for?
Anything you'd genuinely want someone to treat you to, a fresh set, a hair appointment, a spa day, a birthday dinner, or just because. Keep it legal and within the content rules; that's it.
Still curious? hello@didhepay.com